Love entails much more than giving out to the needy.
Love also entails giving room for others to be imperfect. It entails understanding that no one is perfect and giving room for them to express their imperfections.
This makes it easier to converse easily with so called “sinners”. It also makes it easier to forgive people when they hurt us. Because a loving spirit is a forgiving spirit.
Do not judge. Only God can decide who and who would make it to heaven. We shouldn’t be the judge of that.
Give room for people to express their flaws. Never expect so much from people. When they fall, talk to them like a mother who loves them and not like a fiery god that wants to burn them up with criticism and judgement.
Love is a really broad phenomenon. It encompasses a whole lot. A forgiving and non-judgmental spirit is one of them.