MASTURBATION: “YES” OR “NO”?

By: Augustine Mario

Having received so many requests to discuss this top and its effects on sexual performance, I wish to bring this to our attention

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Though a lot of people have done this at one point or the other in their life, but some became addicted ????

Masturbation is fondling your genitals consistently to achieve orgasm.

Ladies may stroke their clitoris while guys rub, massage or caress their penis.

I decided to give explicit explanation because some ask me what masturbation is. Some ladies especially non-virgins use candles, banana, small bottles, sticks, dildos or whatever represents a penis and do solo sex (having sex by yourself).

From teenage upward, you will have a strong desire for sex.

It’s a sure sign you are normal and capable of having and enjoying sex in marriage.

In your 20s it will be stronger and intense! You may wake up feeling horny for no single reason in the world or go hot on spotting a curvy lady! You may start noticing shapes and curves and you have to shake your head several times to keep the image off.

You may get worked up on watching a romantic movie and discharge something. You check up and discover you are wet. All these are normal, you haven’t committed any sin.

So what then do you do when you get hot and horny? Have sex? I know you know my answer and some singles will never be caught dead sleeping around, so what do they do?
They masturbate! They give themselves release and pleasure through solo sex while claiming virginity at the same time.

Masturbation is completely wrong and not the way out. Let me explain:

1. Masturbation is not done in isolation. It is done with the image of someone in mind. It can be a lover, an EX, a celebrity, a married person, a crush, someone you like but incapable of having. You imagine having sex with them while masturbating. That is a form of MENTAL FORNICATION

2. For ladies, while inserting all manner of objects, you may mistakenly deflower yourself and also introduce infection into your genitals and womb.
It will be very difficult to convince your future partner that you never had sex with man except objects during your solo sex.

3. You might kill your ability to enjoy sex in future. So many women don’t enjoy sex in marriage which leads to sexual frustration, adultery etc.

If you are used to getting orgasm by yourself, you won’t be able to get it from your husband.

If you are used to objects in your private part, you won’t have feelings for your husband’s penis.

You will always think of something harder, bigger, longer, larger and completely unrealistic!

4. You might not have a good sex life as a man.
Among other factors you might experience premature ejaculation and your wife won’t enjoy you leading to acute sexual frustration in marriage.

You need self control to fully enjoy sex and give your wife maximum sexual pleasure. A woman enjoys sex when the man can go on for at least 7 minutes before ejaculating.

Because you are used to instant release from masturbation, you may not be able to go more than a minute before exploding leaving your wife completely unsatisfied and frustrated.

She may close up, become frigid and stop having sex altogether which may lead to you having an affair, she having an affair or both of you having an affair.

Self control before marriage helps you enjoy sex to the maximum. You are able to delay ejaculation, go on for a long time and have excellent orgasm while giving your wife pleasure too.

5. If you do not suffer premature ejaculation, you might have serious problem with delayed/ retarded ejaculation.

A situation where you get erection for several hours without ejaculation or orgasm.

What is the benefit of sex without orgasm? Rough masturbation with your hands kills your ability to feel/enjoy sex with your wife.

It is hell for a woman to be under a man who thrusts in for hours unable to ejaculate. How will the woman get pregnant? It’s the reason some women are seemingly “barren” and can’t talk to anybody out of embarrassment.

Thrusting hard for so long leaves the woman sore, frustrated and hating sex altogether.

You may have so much to lose sexually when you masturbate.

6. You start having sex in the dream with a known or unknown person (demonic entities other wise known as spiritual spouse).

7. You feel drained, dirty, empty, and powerless after each act. ( Especially for people who are spiritual)

8. You start getting unsatisfied and wants the real thing. You fantasize more about sex and start longing for the real act.

9. You get a warped view of the opposite sex. You see them as sexual objects and start having sex with anything in skirt or trousers.

How Then Do We Put an End to it. ????????

1. Once you notice you get arouse easily, avoid all dirty pictures, pornography videos, pictures and romantic movies.

2. Stay away from friends that are loose and say dirty things.

3. Get busy with your life, education and career.
Get involve in social activities like sports instead of spending time alone. (Be among people)

4. Go for counselling if need be and turn a new live.

Please this information is not to condemn anyone who is a victim, but to encourage them to win over it as well as to show us the negative effects ????????
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